Cock Comparisons and SPT: A Woman’s Perspective

As a woman, I have learned a lot about my husband specifically and small endowed guys in general through this blog.  One undeniable reality is they LOVE SPT.  Many of these same men also crave to have their penises compared to large dildos or big cocks, but what is the source of that appeal and why do they want it as much as they clearly do?  Let me try to explain to you why I think this holds such a fascinating appeal to so many men.

When I analyzed the results of Small Penis Teasing Survey, there were several things that really stood out to me.   One of those “eye openers” was the desire on the part of males who responded to have their penises compared with other males or their partner’s larger dildos.  The question was asked of participants to describe their interest in this activity on scale of 0 (no interest) to 5 (very high interest).  Almost 90% rated their interest at least as a 4, and 74% rated it as a 5 (Very High Interest).  I have since collected more survey results, and this activity continues to be consistently one of a small endowed guy’s absolute favorite activities.

The question that must be asked is why do so many small endowed guys like to be compared to other guys who have bigger cocks and what’s the psychology behind it?  This is a fascinating question because I think the prevailing wisdom of most women would be to not want to draw any attention to the fact that their partner didn’t measure up.  Why, because its taboo and they would probably view it as a degrading and humiliating thing to point out about their partners and this is indeed true for some small endowed guys who have not accepted their small penises. Yet, for many guys like my husband and the other men who responded favorably to this question, they do not feel humiliated or degraded at all; rather, they find it to be a source of intense eroticism.  But, why is it such a turn on?  Well, I can’t speak for you other guys out there, but I do know what turns my husband on and why.  When I provide Steve with small penis teasing, it’s verbal validation to him that he doesn’t measure up, and he simply loves it.  I have seen and felt his penis stiffen which is proof to me that it’s an intense source of pleasure for him.   When I compare his little penis with my dildo or other men’s cocks, it takes SPT to a whole new level.  It’s like going from the “Little” League to the “Big” League literally and figuratively.   It’s visual affirmation to both of us that he doesn’t measure up, but he simply loves it!    It’s one thing when a woman teases her husband about being small.  It’s a mental mind fuck for him, but when, for example, she places her much larger dildo next to her husband’s small penis, he just about comes on himself. The reason for this is, he already knows he has a small penis, but when he knows that you see the comparison with your own eyes and acknowledge the vast difference, he is excited like little else because he knows, that you know his “truth.”  You know about his “little” secret, but the fact is, he wants you to know about it, talk about it and remind him about it!

So, SPT and Cock Comparisons actually go hand-in-hand and provide the validation and affirmation that turns a small endowed man on.  But there is more to it than just that.   It has changed the whole dynamic of our sexual relationship.  By expressing his desire, indeed his need for this, he has in a sense, transferred all sexual power and control in the relationship to me, and I love it.  It’s like he wants me to know and acknowledge that I’m settling for less.  For us, this automatically kicks in Steve’s desire to compete for me and to compensate in the bedroom.  I didn’t even seek this power, but it’s almost as if he instinctively knows I should have it, and I have to admit that it is both powerful and exciting to me personally.  He is so much more focused on me, both in and out of the bedroom, and will do anything he can to please me.  To be honest, that is not only appealing to me it is also VERY erotic as well. So it is not only my small endowed husband who is turned on by this, I am as well!   I actually think if more women understood this dynamic there would be a lot more of it.

As a result of the great comments on our blog and many emails I have read from readers, I have definitely become more “cock centric.”  The reality is, I love cocks and penises of all sizes and find them fascinating.  And, as we have become more immersed into a deeper level of SPT, I have also realized I need to be doing even more cock comparisons with real cocks that we see online, in videos and X-rated movies, etc.  If you’re a woman who is already engaging in SPT or would like to, comparing your partners cock with others, will probably turn him on like little else.  If he loves SPT, doing cock comparisons will take it to a whole new level.  So, how do you do it?  Well, here are some possible fun things you could consider doing or saying that will definitely get your husband’s attention:

  • First and foremost, don’t be bashful in expressing to your husband you want to watch some “big cock sex.”  It may be intuitive that X-rated movies obviously feature well-endowed guys, but expressing an interest in specifically wanting to see “big cocks” will definitely get your husband’s attention.  This is especially true if you haven’t been “cock centric” previously.
  • Whenever you see a big one, estimate the size of it, by saying something like, “Wow, I think he’s about 8 inches long!”  Guys are size focused and always think in inches, so when you’re sized-focused, it really turns him on.Plus, it proves to him that you are “in the know” about male penis size.
  • Whenever you see a nice looking, sizeable cock, don’t be bashful in telling your partner what a nice looking BIG cock it is, and compare every detail of it with your partner, and be as graphic as possible.  Your partner will be turned on that you are being so graphic!
  • Along the same lines, if you see what you think is your ideal cock size or the perfect cock, tell your partner, especially if it’s bigger than he is.  He wants to know what turns you on and why, and he might just cum on himself!
  • Don’t be afraid to express a sexual interest in a big cock – even if you’re not interested in one. Why, because it really amps up his competitive drive for you. Saying something like, “I would LOVE to suck that big cock,” or, “I would LOVE to feel that big thing inside me,” will definitely turn him on too.
  • Also, don’t be shy in turning the tables.  Ask him direct questions and engage him in a cock discussion.  Some ideas might include:

o   “Honey, when you see a big 9” cock, what goes through your mind?”

o   “When you see a guy whose cock is soft but still much longer and thicker than yours ever gets hard, how do you feel?”

This is one of those fascinating topics that many small endowed men crave.  If your husband loves SPT, he will probably love cock comparisons.   By frequently comparing your lover’s small penis with big cocks will keep him constantly on his toes and probably fully erect too! 🙂

Here are your questions:

Women: 

(1)  Do you compare your husband’s penis with other guys’ cocks?

(2)  If so, what is his reaction?  And if not, what stops you from doing it?

Guys: 

(1)  Does your wife compare your penis with other guys?  If so, do you like it, and why?

(2)  Does she do it enough or would you like it more frequently?

(3)  Do you have any suggestions of other cock comparison ideas that turn you on?

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3 comments

  1. (1) Does your wife compare your penis with other guys? If so, do you like it, and why?
    She will tell me how small I am compared to her exBF who was 7.5″. She also tells me about her friends and co-workers who’s partners have large cocks. I love when she tells them how small mine is.

    (2) Does she do it enough or would you like it more frequently?
    I would love it more. I crave it. It makes me so horny for her to tell me how small my penis is and that she would rather have a bigger one.

    (3) Do you have any suggestions of other cock comparison ideas that turn you on?
    My wife likes to tell me about how her exBF could get deep inside her and how good it felt when he “filled her up”. She will tell me this as we’re fucking and she encourages me to cum as quickly as I can because she isn’t getting anything my my little penis.

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  2. (1) Does your wife compare your penis with other guys? If so, do you like it, and why?

    Yes and of course, I like it. Some of the sexual excitement is embedded in my desire to a cuckold. Hearing my wife walk about my small penis or comparing it to her toy or pornstar, encourages me that she is thinking about or actually desiring to be fucked by a bigger cock.

    (2) Does she do it enough or would you like it more frequently?

    Is there ever really too much SPH?! :0

    ~ken

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  3. Stan · · Reply

    (1) Does your wife compare your penis with other guys? If so, do you like it, and why? Yes, my wife compares my penis to other men’s cocks and to other objects as well, and I love it. Although they are almost always bigger cocks she is comparing me to, I remember one time at a nude beach she seemed so excited as she told me to look at a guy walking towards us because he was smaller than me.

    (2) Does she do it enough or would you like it more frequently? She does it when ever the opportunity presents itself. And if it has been a while she may mention one of the better comparisons from the past. But I would always enjoy more.

    (3) Do you have any suggestions of other cock comparison ideas that turn you on? Your post gave some excellent ideas and suggestions and my wife has tried many of them. I really enjoy being compared to men we know. For example we invited Henry, one of my co-workers, and his girlfriend over for dinner. After dinner Henry suggested we all go skinny dipping in the lake behind our house.
    My wife and Henry’s girlfriend told us to go ahead and that they would be down after doing the dishes. It turns out Henry had a porn size cock. The biggest I’d ever seen. The girls come down to the lake but had decided not to swim. As Henry and I get out of the water and are standing there, it is obvious what the women are looking at as there eyes go from one of us to the other. That night, in bed, my wife must have spent a half hour talking about how big Henry’s cock was and guessing how big it might be when hard, how she wouldn’t have believed it if she hadn’t seen it with her own eyes, and how I looked standing next to him etc. The best part was that for her this wasn’t any SPT. She was just saying what was going going through her brain at the time and the words tumbled out without any filter or dare I say thinking. Since then she has used that night in SPT. When ever we would see Henry she would make sure I saw her looking at Henry’s crotch and then mine and then smile at me. And she’s told me she never looked at Henry the same way again after that night.

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