Why I Love Big Pussy Sex!

Over the last few years, my wife and I have dabbled in a lot of new and exciting things as a result of my small penis acceptance.  One of my absolute favorite things is watching her being pleasured by her big cock dildo.  We had dabbled in dildo and sex toy play before, but it wasn’t until we purchased her newest “Big Boy Cock,” that everything changed sexually for us.  As she wrote about in her article, “Why I Love My Big Cock Dildo, she vividly described how much she really loves her Big Boy Cock and how her orgasmic response is simply off the charts.  For me, watching my wife being thoroughly pleasured by her Big Boy Cock is a major mental mind fuck.  My own little penis becomes incredibly stiff, leaking pre-cum, and desperately wants to “compete” with my big cock “rival.”  She might have 1, 5 or even 10 major mind blowing orgasms, but no matter how many orgasms she has, she always wants my little penis at the end.

So, what goes through my head, and what am I thinking about when I enter her after she has been so thoroughly fucked and pleasured by her Big Cock Dildo?

This is something I have actually spent a lot of time thinking about, and my wife asked me to describe just what it was about this feeling that was such an incredible and powerful turn on for me.

I have attempted to describe this feeling before, but I honestly don’t think I did a good job of describing it adequately because there are virtually a cyclone of thoughts and emotions that race through my mind every single time.  These thoughts and emotions can best be described as psychological and physical.  Psychologically, having witnessed her being pleasured by her big boy cock, I feel sexually overwhelmed and amazed at her sexual capacity as a woman. My little penis is rock hard stiff, harder than it ever gets, as if I instinctively know I have to try and compete with that big boy cock, but psychologically knowing I can’t possibly compete with it, but that really excites me.

Another psychological component of this for me is that my wife always gets to select what kind of sex she wants.  Initially we only dabbled in “Big Boy Dildo” sex periodically, but as time has gone on, and she has really been enjoying those mind blowing orgasms that only her big boy cock can provide, she has become less bashful about choosing to have big cock sex first.  Psychologically, this has also been a mind fuck for me, because I simply love it when she chooses her big cock.

And then physically, I enter her pussy and meet no resistance at all.  I easily slide in to the hilt, and her pussy feels very wet and warm.  I also immediately feel that her pussy feels very big and deep which serves to amplify my feeling of “smallness.”  I feel so inadequate and insignificant, yet, for some reason, this is very powerful for me and the most intensely pleasurable feeling I have ever felt.  Psychologically I already feel sexually overwhelmed from watching her enjoy her big boy cock, but physically after I enter her, I also feel completely sexually overwhelmed too.  The physical feeling also validates to me not only that I am very small, but that my wife does indeed need and deserve her big boy cock too.

Normally, my wife’s pussy would probably be considered smaller and tighter than most pussies.

When I have sex with her without her first using her big boy dildo, it is very pleasurable, but if you gave me a choice of having sex with her when her pussy is smaller and tighter versus when her pussy feels big and stretched, I would always choose the later.  There is just something about the combination of the psychological and the physical feeling of her big pussy that is such a major mind fuck for me. It makes my little boner, the “biggest” and hardest it ever gets and there is simply no denying it.  And then, my wife might whisper to me, “Are you in yet,” or, “You feel so small,” or, “I can’t feel you at all,” and I will come instantly!  I explode, I cum more than at any other time, and leak after-cum forever!

In the final analysis, I love “Big Pussy Sex,” or “Sloppy Seconds,” and though at the time I do feel sexually overwhelmed, inadequate and insignificant, I do not feel that way in day-to-day life. The fact is, I feel VERY secure with who I am.   I know my wife loves me, and that she loves me AND my little penis, and always wants to have sex with me.  These are not “mercy fucks” because she feels sorry for me because I have a small penis; rather, she really loves having little penis sex just as much as she enjoys big boy dildo sex too.  But I have to confess, I LOVE her big pussy!

Here are your questions:

For Men: 

(a)  Do you like big pussy sex, and if so why?

(b)  If you had to choose between a smaller, tighter pussy and a big one, which would you choose?

(c)  How would you describe the feeling of entering your partner when she feels “big?”

For Women:

(a)  Is it surprising to you that guys are turned on by this?

(b)  Has your husband/partner ever acknowledge what a turn on this is for him?

As always, thank you for sharing!

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Best,

Steve

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5 comments

  1. (a) Do you like big pussy sex, and if so why?
    Yes! My wife is not a big dildo fan, but she has a silver bullet vibe that she enjoys. She will tell me that my little dick can’t please her and she needs her vibrator to cum. I will lay beside her as she gives herself multiple intense orgasms. Her pussy will be so wet after she’s finished that the will sometimes let me use her pussy to cum. She will tell me how pathetic my little cock is and how much she wants to be fucked by a big cock. My little dick will slip out several times and she’ll sometimes tell me to finish myself off by hand.

    (b) If you had to choose between a smaller, tighter pussy and a big one, which would you choose?
    Having a small cock, I prefer tight. I have a hard time cumming with loose pussies.

    (c) How would you describe the feeling of entering your partner when she feels “big?”
    Roomy. I’ve fucked a few women who were very loose and on a couple of occasions I couldn’t cum because there wasn’t enough friction.

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  2. Dave · · Reply

    My wife and I have 3 kids and so her pussy is quite loose and she loves her 8 inch dildo. My 3.5 inch erection just can’t compete!

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  3. bronzemedal · · Reply

    My wife and I use a big dildo 99 percent of the time. I go first and usually 3 rd. Joe (dildo) goes second. My initial job is to lubrcate my wife’s vagina. I then prepare her 8×5.5 inch dildo. She fucks Joe to a huge orgasm while I lick her clitoris. Usually she lets me back in for seconds. Her vagina after Joe is hot swollen wet loose full of her cum. It has the most incredibly great feel and she finds my 4 inch plus penis does a much better job of fucking than when she uses it just for lubrication. Of course going in 3rd place from an 8 inche dildo to 4 inche penis she can verbally heap on serious SPH. Two comments watching her get so much sexual satisfaction from her dildo as opposed to my penis maximizes my humiliation It confirms I am a small penis looser. I need this humiliation to maintain my erection I have ED without physical and verbal SPH. It confirms my inadequacy. Second when my wife inserts her big dildo she has a physical reaction of pure happiness and pleasure from the dildo stretching and reaching all of her erogenous zones. We both humanize the dildo with names feelings interests behavior patterns to create human characteristics in a silicon dildo. It becomes a real third person in our love triangle

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  4. (a) Do you like big pussy sex, and if so why?

    I do! Why – from the excitement and gratification of knowing my wife has been sexually satisfied with a “real” cock thus allowing me to relax and enjoy myself.

    (b) If you had to choose between a smaller, tighter pussy and a big one, which would you choose?

    Tighter pussy – when you have small penis, a smaller, tighter pussy makes one feel bigger.

    (c) How would you describe the feeling of entering your partner when she feels “big?”

    A combination of sexually humiliating, humbling, and exciting.

    ~ken

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  5. (a) Do you like big pussy sex, and if so why?
    I like big pussy sex, small pussy sex and any pussy sex I can get. We have Big Pussy sex when I have seconds after the average size dildo we sometimes use. My wife will usually comment about the difference in size and feeling. But even if she doesn’t, penetrating her big pussy reinforces in both our minds how small my penis is compared to the dildo and the average cock.

    (b) If you had to choose between a smaller, tighter pussy and a big one, which would you choose?
    Please don’t make me choose. But if I have to, I think I would pick the small pussy sex.

    (c) How would you describe the feeling of entering your partner when she feels “big?”
    Usually by the time we have big pussy sex her pussy is not only well stretched but also well lubricated. So, from the physical perspective, when my little penis goes in neither of us feels any friction or resistance and my penis feels very small. My mind is filled with thoughts of comparing my little penis with the cock that stretched her pussy. But I also feel that I’ve beaten the odds, my little penis sneaked into the game after all of the big boys have left and scored (maybe not a touchdown, but at least a field goal).

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