How To Get Outed For Having A Small Cock And Being A Cuckold

“Outing” is a topic that fascinates me.  As a woman, it’s definitely one of the surprising things I have learned from this blog.  Who would have thought that lesser endowed guys would want others to know that they have a “little” pre-dick-ament!  🙂   But, what I have discovered is this is something that apparently many, many small endowed guys crave or fantasize about, and it really turns them on.

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Steve recently received a suggestion for a new post from one of our favorite contributors (you know who you are!)  🙂   The gist of the suggestion was for Steve to reveal his favorite “outing” experience and then ask others to share with us their most memorable “outing” adventure.  We talked about it and Steve said, “That’s a great suggestion, but I have never been outed, so I don’t have an experience to share.”  I smiled and said, “Let me write the article,” so here we are.

For us, this subject illustrates the beauty of our blog.

Outing is a subject that neither Steve nor I had ever discussed let alone considered.  But after reading comments from some of you, Steve was fascinated by it which led to his first post on the subject.  That initial fascination with the topic led him to be intrigued by it, and now he practically obsesses about being outed.  How do I feel about outing him?  I think it is kind of erotic too!  I’m not embarrassed or ashamed to admit that my husband has a little penis.  If it turns him on, why not do it?  I think the eroticism in it for Steve is that whomever I reveal this intimate information to, will always possess this knowledge of him, so in that sense, it will provide an ongoing source of SPT – a gift that literally, keeps on giving!  🙂

Here is what I would like to do.  I want to ask all of you who are turned on by “Outing” to answer a few questions. Try to be succinct but also descriptive in your responses. Also, please keep in mind that your examples of Outing should be in a socially acceptable and responsible way.

Questions for the Guys:

(a)  Can you briefly describe your MOST memorable and socially acceptable “outing” experience?

(b)  Can you briefly explain WHY being outed is so arousing to you?  We asked this question in the previous article on the subject, but not everyone provided an answer.

(c)  Can you give me one suggestion on HOW I could, or should “out” my husband?  🙂

Questions for the Women:

(a)  Have you “Outed” your partner?  If so, how did you do it?

(b)  If so, did it turn you on, or did you just do it because he wanted you to?

(c)  Can you give me one suggestion on HOW I could, or should “out” my husband?  🙂

Thank you in advance for your contributions.   As an FYI, Steve WILL be outed, and when he is, I will write another article and share with you how I did it! 🙂

Do you have any thoughts about this? Please comment on the blog or contact us via the about page.

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As a reaction to several mails I got, I published a 110 page book: “How to begin cuckolding” – I put all my experiences in this book, starting from 0 to become a successful cuckold…

Best,

Steve

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14 comments

  1. Outing is always more exciting when it’s accidental. It’s happened to me a few times but the most memorable was one time when I was texting a Dom woman. She wouldn’t agree to anything unless I told her my size, soft and hard. I responded to her text (I thought) with ‘4″ hard, 2″ soft’ and left it at that. The thing is rather than just respond to her text, I’d started a new message and accidentally sent it to my mate rather than her. His response was “WHAT?” I told him not to worry about it, to forget it but he wouldn’t. He kept badgering me until I ‘fessed up. It was very embarrassing and yet, strangely exciting. He now takes every opportunity to bring up my ‘short comings’ particularly in drinking company.

    I really can’t explain why this is so exciting for me. If I really think about it, I guess it’s because I do have a strong sub nature which I love to indulge when I can – normally I have to be quite strong and supportive – so maybe it’s that.

    Something a friend of mine did for me was to ‘accidentally’ show someone a photo which almost showed my lack of size. From memory I was naked but holding something quite small in front of me. The person she showed thought it was hilarious that I could be that small. So that’s a good one!

    Thank you for your blog. I thoroughly enjoy reading your posts.

    G

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    1. Thanks for sharing this!

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  2. I have a small penis, but I have never been outed. The only thing I would say is that it should be a close female friend, or couple, that you both see on a regular basis.

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  3. (a) Can you briefly describe your MOST memorable and socially acceptable “outing” experience?

    My wife was playing cards with friends one night and they were talking about how big their husbands dicks were. They all decided to get an item they felt was similar in length and compare them. My wife chose the cell phone she had at the time which was actually a little shorter than my cock at 4″. It was the smallest of all objects chosen and all the women started asking her if she could “feel it” during sex and if she orgasmed. I had taken my daughter to the movies and when I got home all the women were giggling and a few made the “small dick” sign with their fingers. One woman grabs my crotch and says, “It doesn’t feel that small” and my wife says, “Well, he does have big balls”.

    (b) Can you briefly explain WHY being outed is so arousing to you? We asked this question in the previous article on the subject, but not everyone provided an answer.

    I have known my dick is small since I was a teenager. I was embarrassed and ashamed to have such a tiny dick. When I got into my 30’s I started watching SPH porn and it really turned me on as I could relate to it. A fuck buddy I had at the time told me I had a small dick and my wife told me in the same week. It was so freeing to admit it out loud, to another person, that I have a small dick. It was like being set free. I now no loner feel any shame from having a smaller than average penis. In fact, I really enjoy confessing that I’m tiny and showing it off. I’ve found that a lot of people actually prefer a small penis over a big one. Easier to suck, easier for anal, etc.

    (c) Can you give me one suggestion on HOW I could, or should “out” my husband? 🙂

    I love how my wife does it. She subtly hints about it around other people. We were dining out with friends once and I made a joke about how small my dick was. Everyone laughed and took it as a joke. Then my wife says seriously, “I don’t care that you have a small dick, I love you anyway”. My friend says, “Dude, did your wife just out you as having a small dick”. I said, “Yes, because I do”. I was rock hard the entire time.

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  4. My wife tends to “out” me using small snide but playful public comments. If someone and I mean anyone is talking about something being “big” or “large”, she will take the opportunity to make soft but audible comments they are definitely not referring to her husband or she will tell me “don’t you wish they were talking about your penis” while smiling and brushing up against me.

    However, the most memorable outing was by my own brother. He had shared with his now ex-wife that his brother (me) had a very small penis as a kid (and now as an adult)…and one day when his wife and I were at their house alone, she actually confronted me about my childhood penis size – telling me she knew I had a small penis and was wondering if “it” had finally grown (laughing). At the time, I was not ready to share my lack of manhood especially with my sister-in-law, but now it excites me.

    Now, I enjoy being outed because I have accepted my sexually submissive nature, it reinforces that my wife has accepted my inadequate penis, and the hopes public outing may attract potential Bulls.

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  5. bronzemedal · · Reply

    1. We all knew we had a small penis once we had to shower with other boys. For me this started in swim class. This was the worst form of outing forced by adults to shower with older boys. Not erotic just humiliation but at least I learned my place.
    2. I shared a bathroom at home with my 6 year older sister. She would barge into the bathroom when I was taking a bath or a shower. She knew I was embarrassed to be seen naked.I always covered my penis with a wash cloth or my hands. One time I grabbed a pink plastic cup and placed it over my penis big mistake. She has never gotten tired of telling the story to family and friends of her naked little brother and his little pink cup.
    3. After being outed for years I married an “outer”. My wife has trained me to accept outing. Today when outed I get hard. It is like foreplay. I can’t wait to have sex. I ask her why and her response is to humiliate me. She calls me her little penis boy so often at home she now slips in public. She makes jokes about ” little “always with a smirk letting me know it is my penis she is referring to. She recently told our adult daughter that I have a small penis and shrinking. My daughter has seen her 8 inch dildo. She shared a photo with friends of me skinny dipping with my penis clearly visible. Our cleaning lady and her mother who due our laundry and know I wear panties [my wife’s choice] and which ones are mine. Talk about landing on my feet how lucky am I.

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  6. Hottie. A simple way to out him is at the drug store. Ask a sales girl for assistance in the condom section. With a straight face and him standing right there, ask her what the smallest ones they have are. She will point to the “snug fit” types. Tell her you have tried them and they are WAY too big on him, are you sure there are no smaller ones? He will have to just stand there and take it.

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  7. What seems a really easy question or topic is actually quite complicated I think.

    There can be an emotional journey around how a couple develops to this point and their embracing of their own sexual reality.

    On our journey from sexual dissatisfaction to acceptance and cuckoldry we have been through the range of emotions and communications. This contained (and still does) a range of ‘outing’. Some of which was erotic and some totally humiliating.

    There are several levels to it. Just by way of explanation, I hit the full unfortunate package. Bottom 10% on penis size, small retracting testicles, and, dribble rather than ejaculate.

    When we were first exploring, there was a sense of loss over what was missing from our relationship when everything else was good. It’s a big shift for a wife to think of her ‘man’ in such a different way.

    Personally, I need severe verbal humiliation. I said this early on in our talking through the issues together. In retrospect, probably too early.

    One night, she had been around a friends for a drink with a couple of girlfriends that she’s known since school. They’d got around to sex talk. As a couple we were at a stage where we were recognising a loss in the relationship due to my shortcomings and an ‘angry’ stage for her in dealing with the relationship ‘loss’. She came home and she’s pretty much told them a full ‘outing’; I’m useless, barely got a clit for a dick, fall out of her in most positions and how she had a crap sex life and needed a proper man in bed. I’d imagined her girlfriends found it hilarious (male preconceptions) but they actually took it really seriously and were sympathetic and helpful. She had got it all out there.

    I was pretty humiliated about our private lives and my shortcomings being made public. I was upset and said so. She hit the roof!

    She was right, I can’t claim to be submissive, want to let her control both our sexualities, want her to be verbally abusive to me and then dictate what she says or doesn’t say about it to who she wants. Topping from the bottom.

    And actually I was quite relieved. For smaller guys I think it can be quite stressful to know you’re expected to fulfil in bed but just can’t. She had publicly acknowledged that I can’t.

    After that, we moved on (another story) and found our happy place.

    In public, she is very practical. Which I think in itself is quite erotic. She treats my ‘equipment’ as functional but in no way manly or pleasurable. So, as others have said, it’s simple comments like purchasing condoms; are they the small size, or, purchasing female underwear which is not feminine in itself, like high rise shorts or high leg knickers, and saying to the cashier, ‘fits him better than the male equivalents which are too baggy’. The older female cashiers get the point and are usually willing to have an excruciatingly embarrassing conversation with her.

    It’s the same with cuckoldry – just a husband without the ability to fulfil, shortcomings, her needs. They usually understand. Another story again.

    Hope that helps answer what is a more complicated question than it appears.

    One other point, something which worked for us in her regarding my dick differently and moving cuckoldry forward was to stop ‘male’ wanking and instead only masturbate me as if it is a clitoris. So I now ‘rub myself off’, ‘play with my clit’. My cum is now ‘making myself wet’.

    For anyone looking to cuckolding it was a linguistic game changer. No woman wants to ‘fuck her husbands clit’ or make him ‘wet’

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    1. Absolutely!

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  8. Penis vs cock makes a big statement with my HotWife

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  9. paul · · Reply

    My most memorable experience was my first. It was while my wife and I were still engaged. She used to (and still does) tease me about having a small dick. It didn’t bother me as she was just teasing and not really trying to be mean. It didn’t turn me on, either, really. One day she slipped and told me that she had told her friends that I have a small dick. I was embarrassed and kind of angry. I didn’t mind her teasing me, but her friends knowing was different. They never said anything or made any indication that they knew before that, but now it was a bit weird that I knew they knew.

    A month or two later, my wife said we were going away for a long weekend with her two best friends. We had done stuff like this before, so I didn’t think anything of it. We rented a house and went hiking during the day. When we got back, we would all hang out by the pool. Before this, we all wore bathing suits, but this time, my wife tricked me and left my suit at home. She giggled and said I should just go nude. I was pretty surprised that she would want me to go nude in front of her friends – I was thinking she would be jealous, the fact that she wanted her friends to see my little dick didn’t occur to me. I said if she was ok with it, fine. We walked out to the pool and she announced that I forgot my suit and hoped they didn’t mind if I just went nude. Of course they said it was OK. At first nobody said anything, but after a couple drinks, the women got silly and joking about something that was small and one of them made a comment “kind of like Paul’s dick, only bigger.” My wife giggled, the other friend was surprised but tried to hide her laugh and the one who made the comment giggled and said “sorry!” I was embarrassed and just “yeah, yeah, haha.” Her friend apologized again, more sincerely, but wife wife said “don’t worry about it, I tease him about it all the time – sometimes he even gets hard when I do it.” Her friends were surprised at this and asked if she was serious, which of course she was. One of her friends asked me “do you really like being teased about having a tiny dick?” I said no I didn’t, but my wife said “don’t believe him!” Well, as you can imagine, they kept teasing me and I got hard. They all thought this was hilarious, which only kept me hard. From that point on her friends teased me whenever they wanted, even at home. My wife has outed me to other friends of hers as well.

    I guess I like being outed because I like being teased about having a small penis. I don’t know why it turns me on to be teased about it.

    As far as outing your husband, why not have your friends walk in on him in the shower?

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    1. Thanks for sharing this!

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    2. Reading this made me hard. Very similar to the time I sent my wife a dick pic and she showed it to all her female co-workers. She didn’t tell them who it was, just said, “Look at this tiny dick”. They all laughed and made comments. Later she told me their comments as I jerked off.

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  10. My most memorable experience was my first. It was while my wife and I were still engaged. She used to (and still does) tease me about having a small dick. It didn’t bother me as she was just teasing and not really trying to be mean. It didn’t turn me on, either, really. One day she slipped and told me that she had told her friends that I have a small dick. I was embarrassed and kind of angry. I didn’t mind her teasing me, but her friends knowing was different. They never said anything or made any indication that they knew before that, but now it was a bit weird that I knew they knew.

    A month or two later, my wife said we were going away for a long weekend with her two best friends. We had done stuff like this before, so I didn’t think anything of it. We rented a house and went hiking during the day. When we got back, we would all hang out by the pool. Before this, we all wore bathing suits, but this time, my wife tricked me and left my suit at home. She giggled and said I should just go nude. I was pretty surprised that she would want me to go nude in front of her friends – I was thinking she would be jealous, the fact that she wanted her friends to see my little dick didn’t occur to me. I said if she was ok with it, fine. We walked out to the pool and she announced that I forgot my suit and hoped they didn’t mind if I just went nude. Of course they said it was OK. At first nobody said anything, but after a couple drinks, the women got silly and joking about something that was small and one of them made a comment “kind of like Paul’s dick, only bigger.” My wife giggled, the other friend was surprised but tried to hide her laugh and the one who made the comment giggled and said “sorry!” I was embarrassed and just “yeah, yeah, haha.” Her friend apologized again, more sincerely, but wife wife said “don’t worry about it, I tease him about it all the time – sometimes he even gets hard when I do it.” Her friends were surprised at this and asked if she was serious, which of course she was. One of her friends asked me “do you really like being teased about having a tiny dick?” I said no I didn’t, but my wife said “don’t believe him!” Well, as you can imagine, they kept teasing me and I got hard. They all thought this was hilarious, which only kept me hard. From that point on her friends teased me whenever they wanted, even at home. My wife has outed me to other friends of hers as well.

    I guess I like being outed because I like being teased about having a small penis. I don’t know why it turns me on to be teased about it.

    As far as outing your husband, why not have your friends walk in on him in the shower?

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