How to be a cock tease

There have been several comments posted on the blog previously from men who seemed to enjoy the idea that their wives openly “flirt” with other men.  One of our contributors suggested I post an article on women who are “cock teases,” so I thought it would be a good idea to write a brief article and let you (the readers) take it in any direction you want to.

Let’s begin by talking about the differences between a “cock tease” and a “flirt.”  Is there a difference?  Personally, I believe there is, and let me attempt to describe the possible differences as I see it.  A “flirt” is a woman who enjoys getting the attention of men.  When a woman flirts with a man they (more so than the man) usually initiate the conversations which may not necessarily be of a sexual nature, and if they spill into the sexual arena, she may attempt to keep them limited, perhaps to keep them somewhat titillating.  She tends to have set boundaries which become fairly clear to the man early on.  He knows this is only going to go so far.

A cock tease on the other hand, will not only actively engage men in conversations, but will often times “push the envelope” even venturing into taboo sexual areas to excite the male.  Her ultimate goal is not only to seek attention of men, but attempt to get them aroused as well. Though she also has boundaries, they are unclear to the male, who will continue to probe to determine them.

Here are some questions for you to ponder:

Do you see any differences between a cock tease and a flirt?

Questions for Men: 

(1)  When a woman is an open cock tease, do you think that gives you a “green light” to move ahead?

(2)  How do you feel about being led on… only to be shut down and denied?

Questions for Women:

(1)  Do you consider yourself a cock tease or a flirt?

(2)  If so, what are your limits?

(3)  Have you ever felt bad that you had to shut a guy down, or is that your goal?

(4)  If you are a cock tease or flirt, does your hubby know, and if so, was it your idea or his?

Please feel free to add anything else on the subject.

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Best,

Steve

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5 comments

  1. My wife seems to love leading me on and teasing then…..denying.

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  2. To be honest I find it all rather exciting when she does this, extremely frustrating afterwards though. Until it starts again…

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  3. Hi Steve.

    My wife is definitely a big flirt…but occasionally I have witnessed her be a dick tease – which I know frustrates men, but is sexually trilling for me.

    When we are out if she is enjoying the conversation and is attracted to the man, she will frequently reach out and touch his arm or shoulder and/or play with her hair…and, of course, laugh at all of his stories. I do enjoy watching her being relaxed and having fun. However, if enough alcohol is involved she can hold her own if the conversation turns risqué…and those conversations turn me on and she knows it. Unusually, if she is heavily flirting or teasing, I will find a reason to give her space. Partly, because I always hope it will lead to sex for her or sexual humilitation for me, if the discussion turns to penis size.

    Personally, flirting or teasing is never an open invitation for sex. I do enjoy being dick teased…or flirting. I learned about teasing from a girl at a party that I was spooning on the sofa – we were teenagers and a little tipsy. She was wearing only a shirt and her panties, I was wearing shorts no shirt. As she grinded her ass into my erect penis, she told me sometimes it is fun just to play, but not have sex. I am not sure if she was trying to find a way not to have sex that night or just enjoyed teasing her boyfriends. She was good at teasing…bringing me to the point of cumming several times before backing off and giggling. Yeah, she was pretty awesome. We never did have sex and I didn’t cum that night…but interestingly was sexually satisfied. I should have known then I was destined to be cuck…I am sure an Alpha-male would have closed the deal. 🙂

    Ken

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  4. Great post. My wife is a flirter.

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    1. Thanks for the compliment!

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