Lessons in humiliation: Talking about small cocks

As we all know, the language of sex can be very erotic, powerful and stimulating. For example, what reacton would we have if our wife said, “Honey, I want you to make love to me.”  And, by contrast, would our reaction be different if she said, “I need to be fucked!” There is just something about the second statement that is much more sexually charged. There is also the implied difference between “being made love to” which might be more gentle, versus the need to get a raw, hard pussy pounding.

When it comes to the language of sex, how does your lover describe your penis? Does she call it a penis, a cock or a dick? Do you have a preference, or have you even talked about it? And taking it a step further, does she use an adjective to describe it? Common adjectives for undersized penises seem to be: small, little, tiny, mini, cute, and petite. Does your wife use any of these to describe your penis? If so, are you comfortable with it?

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2 comments

  1. Stan · · Reply

    I read the two blog entries on Words and Sex and remembered I had written to you about this subject a while ago. But I’ve decided to add what I wrote earlier as a comment to the blog.

    I realized that subconsciously I had been making the size distinction between a penis and a cock the way you had. I guess in the future it will no longer be at the subconscious level.

    Since reading the blog I’ve been paying attention to how my wife has referred to my genitals. It confirmed what I thought and remembered. One night in bed I pointed between my legs and asked my wife what do you call that? She immediately responded with “that’s your little penis.” This is what she most often calls it.

    As a lover of language and words I thought my wife would find the blog interesting. So I started reading it to her. When I got to your question “is there a difference between a penis and a cock?” Before I could read any further she said a “cock was big and a penis was smaller.” I continued reading and when I got to your interpretation of the two words she had a triumphant look on her face. When we read some of the comments she agreed that a cock was sexually charged and because of the hard consonants creates a picture in her mind as being powerful. She added that a cock had a “wow factor” and ravages a woman. So, she obviously makes a clear distinction between penis and cock.

    When we got to the list of adjectives she agreed that (for me) she most often uses “little” followed by “small” and occasionally “tiny” and “cute” but never any of the others. Thinking back over the past few years I think she rarely used “penis” without an adjective when talking about me. Although the use of adjectives may have started out as mild SPT I’m not sure it still is. She calls it “little penis” even when not teasing. So I started wondering if she is no longer using “little” as an adjective of penis but that for her “little penis” is as distinctly different from a penis as a penis is from a cock? Each of the three terms may bring up a different picture, feeling, memory, and gut reaction in her mind.

    I reminded her of the following incident that happened a couple of years ago:

    We spent a weekend at the beach with her sister and brother-in-law. At one point while we were sitting in our chairs, the brother–in-law stood in front of us talking to us. He must have “adjusted” himself half a dozen times while standing there. After he left I turned to my wife and asked “did you see what he was doing the whole time?” She said “yes, he is always touching and adjusting and grabbing himself and moving his cock around. This isn’t the first time. It happens almost every time I see him. And the way he grabs it by putting his fingers underneath it and lifting it to a new spot you can see exactly how big his cock is.”
    I told her I noticed that at the time she used the word cock instead of penis…She smiled and asked “and your point is?”

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    1. Great story!

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