Dildos, Penis Extenders and Strap-on Cocks – Part2

The first part is here.

One of our blog contributors relayed a story about how his partner had confessed to him that the only vaginal orgasms she had ever had was with a former boyfriend who had a very large cock.  They jointly decided to go shopping for a dildo that was similar in size to her former boyfriend, and when they found it, (9” long and 6 ½ inches around) she was too embarrassed to even look at it. She kept saying there is no way it will fit or that she would enjoy it.  Interestingly, the very first night they used it, she had two, mind blowing vaginal orgasms within minutes without even touching her clitoris.  Only then did she admit that it fit her perfectly and that it could make her climax almost instantly.

My advice?  Guys, don’t buy her a dildo thinking you know what she needs, go shopping together and let her pick out her ideal length and thickness. Remember it’s all about sexual pleasure – not just yours, but both hers too!

So, dildos are becoming much more main stream in society.  Probably much less talked about and used are penis sleeves (or extensions) and strap on cocks for men.  These products are not for use by men with premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction alone.  Many men with small penises use them as well to give them the added size they or their partners want.   Just like dildos, penis sleeves and strap-on cocks are another very effective solution to artificially enhance the cock size of your lover and they can also provide a whole new level of fun and excitement for both of you.  Due to the wonders of modern technology they are being made with very flexible and realistic materials and offer you a wide range of options in terms of size and shape that dildos do.

Why are penis sleeves and strap on cocks not as popular as dildos?  I think the reasons may be varied.  Dildos seem to be preferred by more women – even if they haven’t tried penis extensions or strap on cocks.  So familiarity and consistent satisfaction they provide may be important factors.  I think another factor may be the fact that a dildo is detached from their lover while a penis extension or strap on cock are worn by their lovers and they may feel like suggesting it regardless of a possible positive outcome may be humiliating for their lover.

But, here is something that may be an eye opener or surprising to the women out there.  Many small endowed men love them.  They may not admit this at first, but the reality is we have all wondered what it would be like to have a big cock, if even only temporary.  One of our blog participants described as others have, how it gave him insight into what it was like to have a big penis.  The size of his “new” cock, the length, the thickness and the weight of his cock dangling between his legs were obvious and very exciting to him.   Other men have reported that their “new” cocks gave them an immediate sense of sexual confidence they previously lacked and how they became more alpha and aggressive in bed.   So ladies, don’t be bashful about engaging your man in a discussion about penis extensions or strap-on cocks, you just might find that they would love to try them.

Advice for the Guys

This is for the guys.  Whether you and your lady try a dildo, penis extension or strap on cock, the one mistake guys often make is getting carried away initially. Don’t get overexcited the first time you use a large dildo, penis extension or strap on cock with your lady.  The last thing you want to do is to cram it in her to the hilt right off the bat.   Start slowly let her pussy adjust to the difference in size.

The other mistake guys sometimes regrettably make is they may not fully understand the consequences of using larger sex toys.  For some reason there are actually some guys who think their partner isn’t going to really like the experience.  So be prepared for her to love it especially if you are in one of those less than optimal pairings described in the Kama Sutra – big pussy – small penis.  She is going to love the added length and girth and come to expect it.  So, by all means stress to your partner she’s free to enjoy the bigger size any time she likes and it won’t hurt your feelings.  In fact, tell her it excites you!

 

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As a reaction to several mails I got, I published a 110 page book: “How to begin cuckolding” – I put all my experiences in this book, starting from 0 to become a successful cuckold…

Best,

Steve

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