Dildos, Penis Extenders and Strap-on Cocks

Dildos, Penis Extenders and Strap-on Cocks

One of our readers mentioned penis sleeves the other day and it got me thinking that we really hadn’t touched on that topic in this blog yet and that we should.

Discussing penis size with your partner can often times be very embarrassing and even an intimidating experience.  But, for a couple to have good sex, complete sexual honesty and communication is very important, and if practiced properly can open up all kinds of new sexual doors for you.

As I chronicled in an earlier blog post on the Kama Sutra, the topic of vaginal size vs. penis size was discussed and is indeed an interesting and fascinating topic.  The Kama Sutra does a great job of describing the physical differences between men and women’s genital sizes, with the ideal pairing being small penis – small vagina, average penis – average vagina and big penis – big vagina.  That’s really no surprise and intuitive if you think about it, but we rarely discuss it.  Unfortunately we don’t fall in love with a penis or a pussy, so when a less than optimal pairing is the case, all is not lost, but we do need to adjust accordingly.  Often times a woman when she realizes this will beat herself up thinking the real problem is her pussy is too big.  And, after all, what woman hasn’t heard that men prefer small, tight pussies?  So she will secretly try kegel exercises in an attempt to regain some tightness.  This is especially true after childbirth, but even women who have not had children but who just have naturally larger pussies will feel the answer is kegel exercises.  There is nothing wrong at all with doing kegel exercises, but it is just one possible solution.

Meanwhile, many men also beat themselves up feeling the problem is not that their partners have a big pussy, but they have a small penis.  These men will sometimes (secretly) resort to trying every form of penis enlargement on the market.  They will try pills, pumps, and exercises, and for many men, these attempts are fruitless and yield no appreciable size gain.

So, often times the couple (the woman with the larger than average pussy and the man with the smaller than average penis) remain sexually frustrated and unsatisfied.  So, what to do?  Well, the good news for couples like this there are many things you can do.  But, the first thing you should do is communicate with your partner.  If you’re a woman, sometimes it can be hard to talk about a subject as taboo as male penis size and that is especially true if your partner has a small one.  You might want to try engaging your husband in a conversation about sex in general.  What do you like?  What does he like?  What do you each fantasize about?  How can you enhance your sexual relationship? This last question is really at the heart of the matter.  Make sure you focus on enhancing your sexual relationship, not that he has a small penis.  Here is what one woman said:

My husband and I were both unsatisfied with our sex lives.  He is not exactly endowed. In fact, to be completely honest, he has a VERY small penis, but I love him dearly. I finally decided to broach the subject and am I ever glad I did.  He admitted that he knew he was small, but just wasn’t sure how to bring the subject up, or what to even do about it.  We have since discussed and even purchased a variety of sex toys that have really enhanced our relationship.  The first time I used a dildo, I thought OMG, this just might have saved our relationship.  But, what really surprised me was just how much he enjoyed using them too!

Now, let’s look at all possible solutions.  As mentioned earlier, there is nothing wrong with women doing kegel exercises, but this is just one suggestion in a smorgasbord of possibilities.  There are also a wide variety of sex positions that are ideal for a couple where the man has a small penis that provide maximum penetration and friction.  (I’ll be posting a blog entry on that Small Penis Sex Positions soon)  And of course, there are also a wide variety of dildos.  Some dildos on the market today are so lifelike you could easily confuse them with the real thing.  The materials used are futuristic and cyberskin and actually do look and feel like a real cock.  And of course, they come in all sizes and shapes.

 

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7 comments

  1. bambiegirl · · Reply

    I have a very small penis. The best method for us is fir me to lay flat on my back or on the edge of the bed. She monuts me by sitting on me. I get full pentatration and she controls the friction. Just have to be careful of being too quick.

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    1. Do you come easily, are you a quick comer?

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      1. bambiegirl · ·

        Yes I do cum quickly. Under a minute or two.

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      2. That’s fast ..

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  2. worshippinggoddessnina · · Reply

    Penis extenders are great. Nina and I started with that once she realized that I was too small for her and that she needed more. But, we went through many different types before finding the right one. You have to get one that is secured around your balls; if you get just a sheath, it will come off during sex. It’ll make your woman so happy and possibly make her realize that she needs more, i.e. a hung bull

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    1. True!

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