Cuckolding And Accepting a Small Cock

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Obsession

Once a man with a small cock accepts it, gone is the anger and embarrassment over having a small one.  That anger and embarrassment is often permanently replaced with an obsessive need for small penis humiliation.  Some of the things men who have made this transformation will do include:

  • Penis Size Websites:  Since flaccid comparisons of cock size are not always a true indicator of size, he will seek out websites of men with fully aroused cocks to do a visual size comparison. Initially he will check out porn sites, but since almost all porn stars are well-endowed, he will soon visit amateur sites to see if the large size discrepancy exits and he will find out that it does.
  • The Gym:  Once a thoroughly humiliating and intimidating experience, the man with the little penis now finds that going to the gym is an exhilarating and thoroughly humiliating thing to do. He can’t help notice walking through the locker room and shower how other men dwarf his mini-member.
  • Chat rooms:  He will often frequent chat rooms to get an “honest” opinion from women concerning penis size.  He will look for opportunities to tell other women his size to get their reaction.  Comments like, “OMG, that’s small,” or “Are you kidding me, your cock is really that small?” really excite the man with the small penis and he will often masturbate hearing the ‘truth” from other women.
  • Cuckolding Websites:  He will discover the world of cuckolding both intrigues and excites him.  He will begin fantasizing about his wife taking on a lover who has a bigger cock believing she is actually entitled to it.  He will have intense orgasms masturbating to the idea.
  • Small Penis Humiliation Websites:  He will also begin visiting these websites out of curiosity and will also be very turned on by them.  He will begin to crave it in his real life.

When asked why men are turned on by small penis humiliation, one woman explained it this way:

I think they get off on it because they know they deserve it! They know they can’t satisfy a woman and they probably know or suspect their wives are already fucking other men with big dicks or would like to. Sorry guys,despite what you may have heard, penis size really does matter.”

For men with small cocks, the above statement is masturbation fodder, because true or not, most men believe it to be true.

Does Your Husband Want Small Penis Humiliation?

If you’re not sure if your husband wants small penis humiliation, start by discussing the topic of penis size with him openly and honestly and judge his reaction.  If he develops an instant boner, you have your answer.  Hard cocks don’t lie.  Even if you have done it before bring a ruler and tape measure to bed.  Measure his fully aroused cock both the length and thickness.  It would also be good for you to have a definition of what average is before you measure him.  There are all kinds of statistics of penis size available on the Internet – some good, some not so good.  Whatever you decide is average tell him before you measure him and ask him point blank if he is small, average or large.  Chances are, when he sees you with ruler in hand he will confess to you that he is small – and it may be the first time he has ever acknowledged it to you.  After you measure him, if he is small, don’t beat around the bush, tell him he IS small, and then ask him the following questions:

  • Does it excite you that I know you have a little dick?
  • Does it turn you on when I tell you have a little dick?
  • Do you feel the need to try harder to compensate for your small dick size?
  • What does it feel like to be in a locker room around other guys with full-sized cocks?

If he is turned on by any or all of the above, ask him point blank if he would like small penis humiliation.  Odds are he will say yes without hesitation.

It’s important for women to remember this.  In reality, it takes strength to face any kind of inadequacy, to accept it, and to embrace the implications.  It’s far better to accept who you are than to live in constant state of denial of your perceived flaws.  Your husband believes he is sexually inferior compared to other men and he has accepted it but is also very turned on by it.  Believe it or not he will also be excited that you know it too.  Once you openly acknowledge your husband’s shortcomings, he will even feel relief because he no longer has to pretend he is some “big” stud when you both know he isn’t.  Sexual honesty is very powerful indeed.

Now, to wrap this up, here’s video on how other men coped with small cocks.

Enjoy!

 

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Best,

Steve

 

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28 comments

  1. bambiegirl · · Reply

    My wife and I have discussed my small erect penis and that i enjoy humiliation about it. Even so much as for her to tell her friends while i’m in the room. My erect penis is 2.75 inches fully erect. It’s been that long since puberty and never grew, even though all my friends kept growing.
    Humiliation and chastity are facts of my life with my wife.

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    1. … and that’s not much different for me !

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  2. Judi · · Reply

    Let me start out by saying my hubby has a small cock. From the first day he was concerned about his shortcomings in the bedroom.
    I would laugh at his concerns and tell him that he was big enough for me. During foreplay I would tell him how cute his penis was.
    As time when by my hubby would bring up my girlfriends names, during foreplay, asking me if I would be interested in sharing our bed with them.
    I would often slip when answering and say “I wonder if they would like your little cock?” My hubby would become silent and that was my clue to take him in my mouth and make him forget what I had said.
    Over time I would continue to tease my hubby, even to the point of bringing a ruler to our bed in order to measure his cock. He was hard as a rock when I measured him. We both knew he was small and he regularly admitted it. My questioning to him would often revolve his high school days and being in an all boys shower. He would say that those were his worst days. I would often ask him what he thought my girlfriend’s would say if they seen his cock. Visably embarassed I would see his cock get hard when I mentioned that some of my friends would think it was cute.
    Seeing how my hubby responded to small cock teasing I believe the tension in our sexual life was lessened and allowed us to enjoy sex more.
    He became more accepting of his shortcomings and eventually exposed his desire to become a cuckold.
    I am proud of my hubby and his acceptance of his shortcomings. It has provided sexual freedom for him and enjoyment for both of us.

    Love reading your blogs as they are to the point.

    Judi

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    1. Thank you !

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  3. My wife would never tell me how big her exBF was and when I told her I had a small penis she gave me the old “size doesn’t matter” and “it just fine for me” lines. After years of marriage we were having sex one night and she could not orgasm. We kept fucking to near exhaustion and she got frustrated and said, “put it it deep and hard”. I was all the way in already. She finally rolled over, grabbed her vibrator and proceeded to cum multiple times.

    After we’d both cum, we had a serious discussion. She finally confessed that her exBF was quite hung, even to the point that her hurt her if he got too aggressive. She finally told me what I already knew, that my penis was small.

    All the points made in this post are spot on. I do them all. I love confessing that I have a small penis and I love hearing my wife tell me it’s small as she pleasures herself. I’m really hoping she will try cuckolding me some day. She has already said she wants to feel a big cock inside her again.

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    1. Thanks for sharing your experience!

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  4. minipenissite · · Reply

    In particular, as far as the obsessions are concerned, I can only agree. When I first uploaded pictures of my tiny penis, I could hardly sleep because of my excitement; I was so curious about the comments … And the more mocking they were, the bigger my excitement. It’s amazing.

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    1. Perfect description !

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    2. Same here. I was embarrassed by my small penis for years. Now I love showing it off and being told how small I am. So glad I don’t have to live a lie anymore. I have a small penis and I’m not ashamed to admit it.

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      1. — and you’re not the only one! This is the right place.

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  5. I will say it to I am happy with my small cock

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    1. … I am , too – that’s this blog’s message!

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  6. I think my wife is getting big black penis at work… because I have a small penis…the more I think about it the more I want her to cuckold me

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    1. … that’s how it started with us! Do you have a blog, as well?

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      1. Hi Steve what is it like cuckolding the more I read your blog the more I want to try

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      2. … it’s what my blog is about 😉

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  7. Hi Steve I would love to send you some pictures of my wife and I. We went to a busy carwash and my wife was wearing no bra or panties a loose top and the most see through leggings you have ever seen.when I told her it was making me hard at the thought of men looking at her naked ass she got straight into bending over in front anyone.we must have spent two hours cleaning the car I didn’t know my wife could be so into this…looking forward to your reply

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    1. Sean, sorry for the late reply ( I don’t always see the comments…) Great! You can always send them to my email (it’s in the contact section and in the book).

      Look forward to it… hot fantasy!

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  8. Sean · · Reply

    I loved my wife teasing stranger’s at the carwash. at first I had no idea just how see through her leggings were.one guy spent ten minutes cleaning one wheel with his face inches from my wife’s ass and she was bent over in the car and as I came around he looked at me and said WOW….I smiled and looked at my wife bent over and it was like she was completely naked she had pulled them up and the sun was shining just right, It got me so hard….

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    1. HOT HOT HOT!

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  9. My penis is the exact length od a Bic lighter when it is erect. My wife is small down there, too. She says my penis is “tint but mighty.” She says I am the perfect size for her, but she also said one of her lover’s 9″ cock eas the perfect size, too. I think it has to do with the time, situation and how hoeny she is. To me, my small penis has been a blessing. Sometimes she neefs more, and I get to watch. Ours, to us, is the perfect marriage.

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    1. Wow! So hot!

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  10. My wife decided she will have sex with her exhusband. His cock is 9 inches. I haven’t fuckrd since our honeymoon. She doesn’t allow me to orgasm either. Only when she says. The last time was past march
    I do get to serve both her and her ex when he visits. I became a cuck and didnt realize it

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    1. That’s hot! My wife loves to tell me about her ex who was 7.5″

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      1. That’s also hot. I love to hear about her big cock conquest and how small i am.
        I would love to have had a big cock . A micropenis is not something to be proud of.

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      2. Yeah…I hate having a small penis. I’ve always wanted one that matched the rest of my features. I’m a very big guy everywhere else.

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      3. Sad part is that my dad is 9 inch erection and my son is 7.5 inches. So what happened to me?

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      4. Never saw my dad hard but my brother is smaller than me. So I’m guessing dad was probably small too.

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