Part 1: A Woman’s Guide to Creating a Cuckolding Fantasy World

Has your husband ever given you the indication that he would like to watch you having sex with another man?  Have you ever had those thoughts yourself?  Have you heard of the term cuckolding, but aren’t sure what it’s all about?  If you answered yes to any of these questions, this article is for you.


Though largely considered taboo and sometimes referred to as a subculture, cuckolding is one of the fastest growing lifestyles in interest and popularity across the country.  Cuckolding is unknown or misunderstood by many, known and distained by others, and understood and practiced by a growing number of couples.  In its purest form, cuckolding is defined as the wife taking on other lovers with the full support and encouragement of the husband while he remains faithful.   When this happens, the wife becomes a Hot Wife or Cuckoldress and her husband is a Cuckold.  There is actually some debate over the terms Hot Wife and Cuckoldress.  Author Alex Hathaway who wrote a fascinating book From Housewife to Cukoldress actually addressed the differences between the two on her blog at  It is an excellent article and will provide you with some keen insight from a woman’s point of view on those differences.

If you’re unfamiliar with the term cuckolding and you do an Internet search, be advised you will discover there are many extreme variations of cuckolding that can include the wife withholding sex from the husband, bisexuality, male chastity, punishment, and a myriad of other unrelated fetishes.  This is one of the reasons why a husband who is interested in discussing cuckolding (in its purest form) to his wife is so hesitant.  He knows she will probably do some independent research to find out what this lifestyle is all about and might be horrified to find out what it might include.   For those interested in cuckolding there are a variety of good sites to gather more information, but you may have to sift through them to determine which ones are of value.  One such site is run by “Jinxy” a cuckoldress from North Carolina.  She has done several instructional videos called “Cuckolding 101” which are worth watching.   The reality is, cuckolding relationships are similar to any other kind of relationship.  There are healthier versions and less healthy version, and if you and your husband are interested in cuckolding, you can shape and design it to fit your needs.


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As a reaction to several mails I got, I published a 110 page book: “How to begin cuckolding” – I put all my experiences in this book, starting from 0 to become a successful cuckold…





  1. […] read part I here, and part II here. Part III (penis size and cuckoldry) is […]


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  3. […] part I, please find part I here, and part II here. Part III (penis size and cuckoldry) is here and Part IV is […]


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