How to tell my wife that I want to be in a cuckold marriage

Several like minded men have now asked for advice on what to do about their fetish.  About 80% of the men are married.  for most of the men they have had the fantasy of their fetish before marrying their wife thinking that it will go away but it does not.  Often it is a man that wants his wife to cuckold him.

He has recurring thoughts and fantasies of his wife having sex with other men and getting pleasure from them.  The husband is usually the one who wants to get his wife involved but he does not know how to go about telling her.

The idea of  Cuckolding is that it involves another man that the husband wants his wife to have sex with in front of him or hear about it after.  The husband derives much satisfaction from watching his wife geting pleasure she deserves from another man that typically will have a larger than average size penis.  Another aspect about cuckolding is the husband needing to be shamed by his wife, and one way is for her to compere his penis size with the other man and let her husband know that his penis is just to small to please her.

Other forms of shaming can go along with the cuckolding as well depending on the scope of the cuckolding session.  Some men like to be tied to a chair and forced to watch, and not allowed to touch themselves while the scenario is being played out in front of them. Sometimes a wife will place a cock cage or chastity belt on the husband so that he is not able to masturbate.  A wife may also spank her husband as a form of deeper humiliation and domination…

The man who has this fetish, dreams about his wife sharing it with him, but for the most part most men who approach their wives with this idea do not get a positive response.  It either results into a fight, hard feeling or a trial period leading to disaster.  Some women may be more open to it than others, but the majority will not.  Several husbands have written me, as I am someone who has succesful cuckold relationship / marriage, about how to approach their wives with their fantasy of cuckolding.

While every case is different, I put most of the points I found to be useful in my How to. Iy you want to understand how to approach your wife and her possible response and make your cuckolding fantasy come true, you will need to prepare your wive slowly and check what her reaction is.  Some women are more open to the idea of cuckolding than others but unless it is approached in the right manner often time it does not go well.

The fact is that once a you are interested in this form of a fetish it is hard to stop from thinking about it and wanting to act on it! If you want to avoid the frustration of dealing with your fetish the wrong way, be sure to check out my comprehensive How to.

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2 comments

  1. graveyardnight · · Reply

    I’ve taken a brief look through your blog. From what I can see, you’re very well thought out and organized. Best wishes. I’ll take a more in depth look soon.

    Graveyard Night

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    1. Thank you for the compliment!

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